Category Archives: Teaching Children

The Secret Password

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A Child Predator can steal the most productive part of a Child’s future in a matter of minutes.

Protect Your Children From Predators

By: Kait King

I am very proud to introduce Ms Kait King, a true Writer Extraordinaire.  You can continue to read the whole original story on Ms Kait King’s site, The writer’s Blogk, by selecting the link immediately following this short excerpt. But first, I want to say that Ms King is a very kind person, with a heart of pure gold, and quiet obviously, a very good Parent and writer.  Thank You all for reading, and when you are finished reading this unforgettable story, please do as Ms King wishes:  Please Pass It On!
Robert StrongBow

A copy of a letter I sent to all of the primary schools to save children – simple and super effective!  Please pass it on.

My son is 27 years old now and it has always amazed me at how many parents through those 26 years, and even now, who have no idea about the concept of the Secret Password.

I used to work as a National Intelligence Support Officer for the police.

I have had projects that have highlighted the danger our children are in while getting to and from school and this is an issue which is not going to go away.

I have a simple solution that may help to keep children safer than they are now.

My son was five and starting school, and with my background and experience I was very aware of the dangers of kerb crawlers and people who would snatch kids from off the street.

via Protect Your Children From Predators: The Secret Password – please pass it forward! | The writer’s blogk

Building & Maintaining A Good Family

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Good Parents teach Children the kind of life GOD expects by example with genuine praise, guidance, and understanding while protecting them from anyone or thing emplanting indifference in their hearts toward GOD and what is right.

Building a Good Family

There are basic qualities and values needed to have and maintain a good family.

These qualities and values are:

  • Love
  • Honor, always truth and loyalty
  • Mutual Respect
  • Kindness
  • Communication
  • Consideration
  • Duty
  • Responsibility

The Future of this world

Children are the future of this world.  As a good parent it is your responsibility to teach your children from birth, the above qualities and values, as these are handed down from generation-to-generation, and prepares them to be good family members, good friends, good neighbors, good employees, good leaders, and good citizens.

Good caring parents teach by example, always remembering that genuine praise, guidance, and understanding are the mark of a good parent.  As your child grows, regular family quality time strengthens trust and mutual respect, forging a stronger family bond, where communication grows easier, and good memories are more easily made.

Maintaining A Good Family

The five “L’s” of a good, strong, family:

  1. Love is at the heart of the family.  All humans have the need to love and to be loved; the family is normally the place where love is expressed.  Love is the close personal blending of physical and mental togetherness.  It includes privacy, intimacy, sharing, belonging, and caring.  The atmosphere of real love is one of honesty, understanding, patience, and forgiveness. Such love does not happen automatically; it requires constant daily effort by each family member.  Loving families share activities and express a great deal of gratitude for one another.  Love takes time, affection, and a positive attitude.
  2. Learning – Families are where we learn values, skills, and behavior.  Strong families manage and control their learning experiences.  They establish a pattern of home life.  They select appropriate television programs.  They guide their children into the world outside the home.  They do not let social forces rule their family life.  They involve themselves in neighborhood, school, government, church, and business in ways that support their family values.  Strong families teach by example and learn through experience as they explain and execute their values.
  3. Loyalty – Strong families have a sense of loyalty and devotion toward family members.  The family sticks together.  They stand by each other during times of trouble.  They stand up for each other when attacked by someone outside the family.  Loyalty builds through sickness and health, want and good fortune, failure and success, and all the things the family faces.  The family is a place of shelter for individual family members.  In times of personal success or defeat, the family becomes a cheering section or a mourning bench.  They also learn a sense of give and take in the family, which helps prepare them for the necessary negotiations in other relationships.
  4. Laughter is good family medicine.  Humor is an escape valve for family tension.  Through laughter we learn to see ourselves honestly and objectively.  Building a strong family is serious business, but if taken too seriously, family life can become very tense.  Laughter balances our efforts and gives us a realistic view of things.  To be helpful, family laughter must be positive in nature.  Laughing together builds up a family.  Laughing at each other divides a family.  Families that learn to use laughter in a positive way can release tensions, gain a clearer view, and bond relationships.
  5. Leadership is essential.  Family members, usually the adults, must assume responsibility for leading the family.  If no one accepts this vital role, the family will weaken.  Each family needs its own special set of rules and guidelines.  These rules are based on the family members’ greatest understanding of one another.  The guidelines pass along from the adults to the children by example, with firmness and fairness.  Strong families can work together to establish their way of life, allowing children to have a voice in decision making and enforcing rules.  However, in the initial stages and in times of crisis, adult family members must get the family to work together.

Its A Bird, A Plane – The Reason Is You

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“I couldn’t feel anything. I didn’t notice anything when I was doing it… I had to get that child out of the water.”

Deputy who rescued boy from pond says
he was desperate, numb

A Utah sheriff’s deputy said Tuesday he was desperate and numb from the cold as he punched and stomped his way into a frozen pond on Christmas Day to pull out an 8-year-old boy who had fallen through the ice while chasing his dog.

With cuts on his forearms, Washington County sheriff’s Sgt. Aaron Thompson said at a news conference that rescuers believe the child was in the 37-degree water for about 30 minutes until the deputy rescued him.

“I couldn’t feel anything.  I didn’t notice anything when I was doing it,” Thompson said.  “I knew that time was of the essence.  I had a very short window to get that child out of the water.”

Sheriff’s Lt. David Crouse said the boy was hospitalized in Salt Lake City but he didn’t have details on his condition.  Thompson said deputies were hopeful.

The boy fell through the ice in the town of New Harmony, north of St. George.

After arriving at the scene, Thompson, who had served on a search and rescue dive team, began searching an area where a woman reported seeing the boy’s hand flail about four minutes earlier.

The deputy stomped to break through the ice and work his way deeper, pounding with his hands and fists.

“As the ice got thicker, I couldn’t break it with my arms and my fists anymore, so I had to jump up on top of the ice, putting my weight on it, and then pound on it to get it to break,” he said.

When he went into the water, his toes brushed against reeds growing on the bottom of the pond and water reached his neck.
He swished his arms and legs around before finding the boy beneath the ice about 25 feet from the shoreline.

Thompson was treated for symptoms of hypothermia and released from a hospital Monday night.  He said he lost the feeling in some fingers but sensation had returned by Tuesday.

He expects to return to work by early next week.

The Spectrum of St. George reported that Sheriff Cory Pulsipher praised the deputy.

“He hates having the spotlight on him, but he’s a hero,” Pulsipher said.

Child Safety & Prevention Series #5

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Important things to consider before allowing your child to stay home without you.

Staying Home Alone

With everything parents have to juggle these days, the time may come when families have to leave a child home alone.

There are a number of important things to consider before allowing your child to stay home without you.

You should…

  • Assess your child.  Make sure he or she is mature enough to handle this responsibility.  Ask your child how he or she feels about being alone.
  • Define rules and expectations to help ensure your child maintains a daily routine while home alone.
  • Keep a list of numbers close to the telephone including those for you, other trusted adults, 911 and other emergency services.
  • Create practice situations and be sure your child understands what to do in specific emergencies such as a fire or loss of electricity.

Make sure your child knows…

  • His or her full name, address and telephone number along with your full name and how to reach you.
  • He or she should never open the door for someone unless that person is on a preapproved list of trusted adults you have provided.

Also make sure your child knows how to…

  • Contact 911 in case of an emergency.
  • Carry his or her key so it is hidden and secure.
  • Lock the door after entering and make sure the home is secure.
  • Tell callers you’re unavailable instead of saying he or she is home alone.
  • Check with you immediately upon returning home to let you know he or she has safely arrived.

For more information about child safety, visit MissingKids.com

NOTE:  This is not the property of NOT IN MY WORLD!!!!, we are a self-supporting information center for parents, families, and the public, to help all children, who are the future of our world; by raising awareness to Child Abuse, and it’s lifelong detrimental effects.

We want to say THANK YOU to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, and the U.S. Department of Justice for allowing us the use of so many resources to properly educate our staff, and also to pass along this valuable information and resources to parents, families, and the public.

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children®
http://www.missingkids.com
1-800-THE-LOST® (1-800-843-5678)

Dru Sjodin National Sex Offender Public Website
THE U.S. DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE
NSOPW
https://www.nsopw.gov

Your Child Needs You – Pt 3

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Your Child Needs YOU
BEFORE It Is Too Late

The Bathroom Bill: The AntiChild Agenda

You and the other part of The Team have the chance to be the parents your Child deserves, although the chances of that happening are very slim.

Do you realize that the planet we inhabit defies the odds of an “accidental” anything making this earth.

When you add the odds of every creature of the sea, air, and land being totally unique(every one of every class of every living thing is different slightly than every other one), nothing other than Our Mighty GOD could have made all we know and set it in motion.

I want to say this quickly in passing: Greenhouse gas, fossil fuel pollution, pollution from coal power generation?  When you have a “one of a kind water purification system that also purifies the air”, is there any reason to worry about any of the above in this paragraph?

If you say yes, then write me a 20,000+ word thesis: Define the categories of volcanoes, list every element and gas known to man that is expelled from the volcano.  Now list the approximate amount of every poison that is blown into the air and atmosphere from a super volcano.  LIST NO THEORY!!!!

NOW, how is the sun still visible after 7,000+ years at the very least.

All the above is great information to talk about during quality time with The Team, if you run short of project material.

Good memories are easily made during Quality Time, and the opportunity to communicate with The Team is always there.

Can you communicate with The Team?  Is there meaningful communication between all Team members?  We have resources to help everyone’s Team, but you have got to have the desire to be the Parent your Child needs, then you have got to invest time in your Child and their future.

THE ANTI-CHILD AGENDA

It is a Parent’s duty to protect their Child until grown.  What should be very obvious is the fact that few people care for the well-being of Children.

The first of 2015, we met Alan Fountain through his attempt to get a window opened in Georgia’s SOL for Sexually Abused Children, so we pitched in to assist Alan any way possible.  This was a very learning experience, but the one thing that I could never have imagined was the first time I read that Atlanta GA was the Child Sex Trafficking Capitol of Our Country.

As of Monday, May 22, 2017, according to the latest numbers I read, Atlanta GA is still the Child Sex Trafficking Capitol of Our Country.

There is NO TRANSGENDER, there is ONLY a psychological disorder called “GENDER DYSPHORIA”.

I could never have imagined the day when the AntiChild Agenda would make it impossible to raise your Child as was intended, it is wrong to implant indifference into a Child’s heart.

YES, I SAID “AS WAS INTENDED”, if you look back into the 3rd paragraph of this post, where I was talking about every living thing being unique unto itself (all GoldFish are marked slightly different, as are Leopards, and as are Mockingbirds), but in the same respect every living thing has one thing in common, there is not one type of living thing that is homosexual.  Human’s are the only creature perverse enough to act on sick fantasies and evil whims, just as they are the only living creature that derives pleasure from watching or causing another human pain and suffering.

PULLING NO PUNCHES

Lt. Governor Dan Patrick Cares For Children And Families

What should be all too obvious at this point in time, is that there has always been an AntiChild Agenda, since Children have never been protected.

Texas bathroom bill could expose birth certificate gender of transgender kids