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Welcome to NOT IN MY WORLD!!!!, where we speak-out against Child Abuse and Violence

NOT IN MY WORLD!!!! is the product of a Circle of Friends on MeWe, who believe PRICELE$$ is the only value we can place upon Love, Honor, and Duty to Our Children, and to every Child in this world.

With the closing of G+, we moved Our Home and Our Circle to MeWe on March 4, 2019, and opened our NotInMyWorld Page.  I am very happy to say that since our move to MeWe, we have witnessed many, many Blessings, and so many of these have been the new additions to Our Circle.

We are a nonprofit information resource center, serving families, parents, and the general public on issues related to good parenting.

All Children deserve to grow up in a non-violent, family settingbeing loved, cared for, feeling safe at all times, with proper diet, and as they grow be taught Honor, Truth, Respect, Responsibility, and Duty in regard to themselves, others, and as young future citizens.

“The test of the morality of a society is what it does for its Children.”
– Dietrich Bonhoeffer –

The resources we have made available are not our property and are made available in good faith only as a public service, for we believe there is a basic set of values parents should possess to be good, productive members of a community and citizens of this country, as well as teaching Children these same values.

The resources we have available at this time are listed in the left sidebar menu:  Anger Management, Baby, Child Abuse, Children, Communication, Conflict Resolution Skills, Family & Good Parenting, Stress Relief, and Violence.

Restoring Hope: Volume 1
“Removing Chains of Child Abuse”

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Restoring Hope Vol-1

Ark of Hope for Children is proud to present our first book in our Restoring Hope series, “Removing Chains of Child Abuse”.  This very special book is compiled from short stories, art and poetry authored by seventeen survivors of child abuse, bullying and human trafficking.  The contributing survivors in volume one hail from three different countries; United States, United Kingdom and France. Stories are already being gathered for Restoring Hope volume two.

These powerful stories allowed those who submitted them to experience writing and art as therapy.  The authors know that their works will give hope to the survivors reading them to realize that they are not alone and they too can recover.  This book is packed with resources for those still suffering and it includes a short journal in the back for readers to note their feelings as they read.  A full journal is now available!  Created as a stand alone journal or to accompany this book, read more about the Removing Chains of Child Abuse Journal here.

The Restoring Hope Project was made possible through our Community Partnership with TGIM Publishing, which is the proud developer of Writing for the Soul Workshop™. The workshop is a vibrant program that invokes a passion for writing, resources for healing, and skills for a lifetime while tackling the problems of mental, financial and educational inequality.

Available now!

Parental Supervision and Quality Time

Our Children are easy prey when left unsupervised and many parents mistakenly believe their Children are safe indoors.

The internet is a cesspool of perverts and pedophiles doing everything possible to lure Children to them.

There are apps which block access, according to how they are set, and apps that record activity and location;  all of these should be seriously considered and employed as another means to protect Children in day-to-day life, although nothing can replace parental supervision and quality time.

∗ It must be noted that these apps that track activity and location and their uses are strictly governed by Federal Law and closely monitored, these may not be utilized against anyone over 18 years of age.

Domestic Violence and Every Day Violence

Child Abuse is out of control and Violence is sky-rocketing.   We have allowed Violence to become a common, everyday, thing.

Violence takes many forms, including intimate partner violence, sexual violence, child maltreatment, bullying, suicidal behavior, and elder abuse and neglect.  These forms of violence are interconnected and often share the same root causes.

There are experiences, particularly early in childhood, that make it extremely predictable that individuals are at substantially higher risk for involvement with violence, be it interpersonal, youth violence, intimate partner violence, dating violence, or child abuse.

When children grow up in safe, stable, and nurturing relationships and environments, they learn empathy, impulse control, anger management and problem-solving—all skills that protect against violence.

When children grow up in environments where they don’t feel safe, their brain cells form different connections with each other to better recognize and respond to threats.

Children living in a persistently threatening environment are more likely to respond violently (fight) or run away (flight) than children who grow up in safe, stable, and nurturing environments.

Fight-or-flight responses are survival skills that people are born with and often override other skills that enable non-violent conflict resolution, such as impulse control, empathy, anger management, and problem-solving skills.

 Tougher Laws For Any Form Of Child Abuse

Child Abuse, especially Child Sexual Abuse and Child Sexual Slavery is ignored and Child predators are given minimum sentences, even when the CHILD is exposed to  life-threatening STDs.

This year alone, 10,000,000 Young People, 13 years of age to 23 years of age will contract at least one (1) or more STI or STD.

There are about 3.3 million reports of Child Maltreatment every year in the United States.  Yet less than 25% of the cases are reported, which translates to over 13,200,000 actual cases of Child Maltreatment, and the actual number may be much higher.

What should be a wakeup call to everyone is the unsettling fact that out of 3.3 million reports, only 686,000 cases are deemed actual Child Maltreatment.

It has now been proven that due to a faulty, tainted system of record keeping within CPS and other Departments, what is listed as about 5 Children daily, is more near 10 to 13 Children daily in the United States DIE because of Child Abuse or Neglect.

a.  70.3% were younger than three years of age
b.  44.4% were younger than one year of age

“The future of this Country and Our World, depend on what we do now.”
– Robert StrongBow


  • Violence:  Connecting The Dots – pdf
    Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
  • The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
  • Journal of Preventive Medicine
  • Ark of Hope for Children


87 thoughts on “Our Home”

      1. Bunny. how did you like how I told the story, how we had to sacrifice somebody???? hahahaha, I know, I’m in trouble, but you got to admit, at least we have time to at least laugh a little, although maybe it is the fact that we KNOW we are doing some good now. What do you think????

    1. It is you who should be Thanked, you and all the others with hearts that feel and have love for others.
      It is me who is honored to have been able to travel, if only for a short time, on the same path through this life, and make the pathway a little better as we travel, for those that might pass this way some where in the future.
      Your kindness strengthens me, and heals the wounds that is unavoidable on this Boulevard of Broken Dreams, which are the Dreams and Futures stolen from Our Children.

      1. I’m humbled and thank you again. I feel the same overwhelming innate passion to help all of our children in the world, blessings to you and yours

  1. “The test of the morality of a society is what it does for its children.”
    – Dietrich Bonhoeffer
    We are not measuring up too well here in NZ at all, I know that for a fact

    1. We were weighed and measured in the beginning, and found lacking….
      Is it enough to labor???? For I have never tried, although I have failed many times. I get back up and labor more; while not looking back, but that doesn’t mean I don’t guard the backtrail, because to make the same mistake twice is not only folly, it is stupidity.
      I want to say Thank You for your words and careing, for I see the path clearly again, and it is time to labor….
      Your traveling companion,

      1. One foot in front of the other – suddenly you are well on your journey – I commend your labor – a labor of true love and caring.

      2. Damn Right! Silence just perpetuates the belief we are doing nothing or care nothing to change it – All Power To YOU! 🙂

  2. Thank you Robert and I agree 100% with your message, we need to protect the Children from all harm including emotional. Being a survivor of Child Abuse and much more than once, I understand how much damage can be done (I will leave my link for you ) sometimes it lasts a lifetime, sometimes just till suicide, which has tripled with the youth today.

    Childhood – http://freedomborn.wordpress.com/2011/09/27/the-early-years-a-little-lost-girl/

    I run a Funday School on Wednesday for Children who mostly come from broken and Dysfunctional homes, they share their pain , their nightmares their fears and doubts, I know they don’t feel they are Loved, not often said out loud but it’s shown.

    The main focus of my Funday School is to share with the Children regardless of their age, how much Jesus Loves them and that He is their Best Friend and will always be there for them. When they share that they wake up frightened, I tell them to talk to Him the same as I did until I was deceived that I came from an Ape by my Teacher and my Mother who had Adopted me. The Children tell me they always feel better after they talk to Jesus and yes He still holds my hand through every Storm life brings too.

    Isaiah 43:1-3 – Do not be afraid, for I have ransomed you. I have called you by name; you are mine. When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown! When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you. For I am the LORD, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Saviour.”

    Lamentations 3: 33 For God doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the Children of men.

    Christian Love and Blessings – Anne.

    1. Thank You, I appreciate your input.
      The people of this world have been subjected to, and brain washed by faulty studies which were manipulated by humans with a very dark side. All the while tearing down the Family structure, while leaving Our Children unprotected for 7,000 years.
      One has only to look around to know these lies, every species on this earth is unique, and not one breed is homosexual.
      We live in a world with but one constant, Our GOD.
      There is no constant speed of light, as far as man can measure. This is easy to prove, when some photons are hurled toward us at millions of miles per second.
      There is no gravity constant, one has only to watch the oceans, but it has recently been acknowledged that the poles shift.
      There is NO GLOBAL WARMING, or certain places that were above water when we were children would no longer be visible.
      There is one constant being ignored by the fool-hardy, and that is where 7 new continents are growing by the day, and as they grow, far below the surface toxic waste eats it’s way free of the containers, and soon will poison this earth’s purification system. Evaporation can never happen at the same rate over a cess-pool, so therefore Condensation will happen at a much slower rate, until there is no drinking water.
      Thank You for your input, I look forward to talking with you again, and hopefully shedding more light toan ever-growing blind population.

  3. Very True Robert and it is Prophesied in Revelation but even when people are aware of whats happening they won’t realize that it is a sign of the end times when Jesus will return and when we will be Raptured and those who reject Him will be left to endure the man made destruction of this world, instead they will believe all is well and continue on in their sin and yes including Homosexuality, it will be like the times of Noah…. Evil.

    Blessings – Anne.

  4. Hello! It’s nice to be here on your beautiful site. You are onto a great job. Child abuse is a problem everywhere in the world and it is important and good that we have people like you who are working hard to help the situation. I do encourage you and pray that you may continue to get the support you need for your work.

    1. Thank You Kind Sir!!!! I am Honored that feel this way, although I am deeply Humbled with your words.
      I have multiple cultures flowing through my veins, and I don’t mind that My Father’s people, The Comanche, who are known as Native Americans in Our Country, are a major part of what I am, and that is, I AM My Brother’s Keeper. I take my calling as a Steward very highly, and I like and enjoy people.
      Your kind words of encouragement bind my wounds which at times cover me like strips from a whip, just being so close to the evil visited upon Our Children, and the weak of Our World.
      Thank you for taking the time to visit, and you are considered one of Our Circle now, for a Man Like Yourself, I would Have On My Side!!!!

  5. Wonderful cause! I’m glad there are people out there standing up for those who cannot defend themselves. Children deserve a safe place to thrive and grow. It’s horrible that the level of child abuse that exists is still so high…it should not exist…period. Cheers to your cause! I’m glad I have crossed paths with those who want to help and make a difference 🙂 xo

    1. You are Native American.
      Far too long people have stood and done nothing while others are misused and abused.
      We live in a world where excuses rule the day, and responsibility is almost nonexistent.
      I am both proud and honored that we have met on this pathway through life, and share for at least a time.
      Robert StrongBow

      1. Thank you Robert :)I am glad to be here and I am honored that you consider me to be Native American. I have never had anyone see any of my Native Blood which I am afraid is only partial. My Mother’s side of the family is Acadian French (Canada) We have Metis blood 🙂 but I am honored nevertheless 🙂 xo I certainly understand child abuse as I grew up with it and both sides of my family have a long history of abuse in many forms…I am happy to say this generation is rising above that and I am glad others are too .We owe it to our future children

      2. You are welcome!!!! And Thank You, we value your input and comments, communication and feedback strenthen Our Circle and community.
        I hope you mean this generation of your family, because with what is in place now, and with the majority apparently happy with a world with no morals, Our Children have very little chance now.

      3. Yes…and I’ll be honest…I do not have children ( I did lose at the hands of the universe before they could come into this world but I feel they are in a better place no doubt)…I struggle with the idea of bringing children into the world as it stands now….I fear for children and their future…I would like to think because I have broken a chain in my life….it would free any future children I might have but honestly…it takes more than me…it takes all of humanity…and the world is unwell…it has been for awhile…instead of bringing children into it…I feel we need to repair the damage first before anything else

    1. WORDMAN!!!! Man you just touched me right in the heart….
      You have been on my mind for a week now, and I dropped by your G+ page 2 days ago.
      I hope you and your family are doing well, I always send all Good Things your way.
      You are a special one, and always will be. I stopped by your LinkedIn page a while back, very impressive. It would have been an honor(if we were closer in age) to work with you as a colleague.
      You are always in my Thoughts, my Heart, and in my Prayers,

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