Welcome to NOT IN MY WORLD!!!!, where we speak-out against Child Abuse and Violence
NOT IN MY WORLD!!!! is the product of a Circle of Friends on Google, who believe PRICELE$$ is the only value we can place upon Love, Honor, and Duty to Our Children, and to every Child in this world.
We are a nonprofit information resource center, serving families, parents, and the general public on issues related to good parenting and giving Our Children every opportunity they deserve to grow up in a non-violent, family setting; being loved, feeling safe at all times, with proper nutrition and healthcare, where they can learn the basic qualities it takes to be a good family member, good friend, and good student. Only then can you know they have the chance to reach their maximum potential through equal opportunity education, to be the citizens needed to make Our Country a safe, free, family environment for another 300 years.
“The test of the morality of a society is what it does for its Children.”
– Dietrich Bonhoeffer –
The resources we have made available are not our property and are made available in good faith only as a public service, for we believe there is a basic set of values parents should possess to be good, productive members of a community and citizens of this country, as well as teaching Children these same values.
The resources we have available at this time are listed in the left sidebar menu: Anger Management, Child Abuse, Communication, Conflict Resolution Skills, Crying Baby, Danger: Kids Left In Hot Cars, and Stress Relief.
Parental Supervision and Quality Time
Our Children are easy prey when left unsupervised and many parents mistakenly believe their Children are safe indoors. The internet is a cesspool of perverts and pedophiles doing everything possible to lure Children to them. There are apps which block access, according to how they are set, and apps that record activity and location; all of these should be seriously considered and employed as another means to protect Children in day-to-day life, although nothing can replace parental supervision and quality time.
∗ It must be noted that these apps that track activity and location and their uses are strictly governed by Federal Law and closely monitored, these may not be utilized against anyone over 18 years of age.
“Throughout history, it has been the INACTION of those who could have acted; the INDIFFERENCE of those who should have known better; the SILENCE of the voice of justice when it mattered most; that has made it POSSIBLE for evil to triumph.”
~ Emperor Haile Selassie ~
Child Abuse is out of control and Violence is sky-rocketing. We have allowed the agenda of this feel-good society to cloud our vision with non-issues, to the point where Our Children are being tried as adults in our Justice System. We have allowed Violence to become a common, everyday, thing. Violence takes many forms, including intimate partner violence, sexual violence, child maltreatment, bullying, suicidal behavior, and elder abuse and neglect. These forms of violence are interconnected and often share the same root causes.
There are experiences, particularly early in childhood, that make it extremely predictable that individuals are at substantially higher risk for involvement with violence, be it interpersonal, youth violence, intimate partner violence, dating violence, or child abuse.
It is time to think of the future of this world, which is Our Children.
It is time to stop making Our Children pay for Our mistakes. It is time to make it a CRIME TO COMMIT ANY VIOLENT ACT in front of a Child, or where ANY CHILD CAN WITNESS ANY VIOLENT ACT!!!!
Domestic Violence and Every Day Violence
When children grow up in safe, stable, and nurturing relationships and environments, they learn empathy, impulse control, anger management and problem-solving—all skills that protect against violence.
When children grow up in environments where they don’t feel safe, their brain cells form different connections with each other to better recognize and respond to threats.
Children living in a persistently threatening environment are more likely to respond violently (fight) or run away (flight) than children who grow up in safe, stable, and nurturing environments.
Fight-or-flight responses are survival skills that people are born with and often override other skills that enable non-violent conflict resolution, such as impulse control, empathy, anger management, and problem-solving skills.
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines INDIFFERENCE as: lack of interest in or concern about something
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines HEDONISM as: the doctrine that pleasure or happiness is the sole or chief good in life
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines NARCISSISM as: the love of one’s own self
It is time to put away Our lack of interest and lack of concern about Our Children! It is time to think of something other than Our pleasure.
It is time to think of Our Children and go to work teaching them the values this country was built upon; the same values every adult should possess, although RESPONSIBILITY FOR ONE’S OWN ACTIONS needs to be learned by a major percentage of the adults in our country.
It is time to teach Our Children to love their family, love their neighbor, love their fellow-man. love this Country, love this world, and Love The Lord Our GOD.
Tougher Laws For Any Form Of Child Abuse
Child Abuse, especially Child Sexual Abuse and Child Sexual Slavery is ignored and Child predators are given minimum sentences, even when the CHILD is exposed to life-threatening STDs.
This year alone, 10,000,000 Children, 13 years of age and up. will contract at least one (1) STI or STD, or more.
All Children deserve an equal chance to be Loved, Cared For, Have A Proper Diet, and Know That They Are Safe; and as they grow be taught Honor, Truth, Respect, and Duty in regard to themselves, others, and as young future citizens.
There are about 3 million reports of Child Maltreatment every year in the United States. Yet less than 25% of the cases are reported, which translates to over 12,000,000 actual cases of Child Maltreatment, and the actual number may be much higher.
What should be a wakeup call to everyone is the unsettling fact that out of 3 million reports, only 686,000 cases are deemed actual Child Maltreatment.
It has now been proven that due to a faulty, tainted system of record keeping within CPS and other Departments, what is listed as about 5 Children daily, is more near 10 to 13 Children daily in the United States DIE because of Child Abuse or Neglect.
a. 70.3% were younger than three years of age
b. 44.4% were younger than one year of age
“The future of this Country and Our World, depend on what we do now.”
– Robert StrongBow –
- Violence: Connecting The Dots – pdf
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
- The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
- Journal of Preventive Medicine
- Ark of Hope for Children